Landslide

20 Jan

New York City Fashion, Lifestyle Travel blog: Strappy lingerie, basic grey tee, distressed white jeans, black leather booties
New York City Fashion, Lifestyle Travel blog, Strappy lingerie, basic grey tee, distressed white jeans, black leather booties
New York City Fashion, Lifestyle Travel blog: Strappy lingerie, basic grey tee, distressed white jeans, black leather booties

Having recently returned to the frigid NYC temps, looking at these photos makes me slightly nostalgic for the California sunshine. Actually, it is more the fact that just a couple weeks back I was comfortable wearing such minimal clothing in the height of winter. The very evident downside is the awful drought this part of the country has been suffering from…

I shot these photos right down the street from the home I grew up in, where some beautiful houses used to stand. I left Orange County over ten years ago…and oddly enough at the time it wasn’t a lack of rain but the destructive landslides, that caused many people to lose their homes. Homes they literally watched collapse beneath them due to mud, misplacement, poor construction, and unpredictable weather.

If you are a regular (or even occasional) reader of my blog, you know I am much more predictable than the weather I speak of in that I will inevitably turn this odd metamorphosis into an analogy relating to “real life” and the way that we deal with fluctuations and fucked up shit.

Sometimes I find myself falling down slippery slopes, and crumbling internally as a result of the many unexpected and challenging scenarios I’m thrown into. Other times I find myself completely drained dry…so exhausted, both physically and emotionally, that I’m actually incapable of shedding a tear (and crying is something I happen to be damn good at).

But, in the same way that the community is rebuilding what was broken down here a few years ago, we have to remind ourselves that we, too, can always bounce back. In life, it may take a great deal of reflection, deep conversations with true friends, self-realization, and acknowledging that you are strong enough to see that a positive outcome is possible if you are willing to do what it takes to get there.

So here is to being blindsided, “broken”, embracing the hurt, but ultimately learning that you can work hard and stand back up again with pride…stronger than ever. Just keep on moving on, and don’t forget the powerful resilience that exists within us all.

*head to toe: Ray Ban sunglasses, American Apparel strappy bra, Marine Layer crewneck tee, Urban Outfitters distressed denim jeans,  Vagabond black leather booties

9 Lovely Comments on “Landslide”

  1. Richeme 26. Jan, 2015 at 1:31 am #

    I really like your style!

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  2. Christina 21. Jan, 2015 at 4:20 am #

    A very regular follower I am, also of your instagram-activity. Very appreciative of what you do and share!!
    Maybe you could inform us about your Paris-plans? Would love to hear more about that!

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  3. Angel Zheng 20. Jan, 2015 at 6:31 pm #

    I loved that this post wasn’t just about the clothes, or the photos. That you spoke about some of the very real issues that people have to face.
    But of course, I’ve got to say, I love your outfit as well ! especially the white jeans.

    Can’t wait to see more posts from you !

    xx

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  4. Fortune Tarantola 20. Jan, 2015 at 3:16 pm #

    Awesome post. I always enjoy your words. They really help me to reflect on my own shit. Cool jeans too! Missing the warm weather

    xx Fortune
    http://www.fortunetellerfashion.com/

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  5. nikki 20. Jan, 2015 at 2:52 pm #

    love this post!

    xx nikki
    http://www.dream-in-neon.com

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  6. Jeanne 20. Jan, 2015 at 10:47 am #

    Very cool jeans!
    ♥♥♥
    Jeanne
    http://fashionmusingsdiary.com

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  7. Liz 20. Jan, 2015 at 8:55 am #

    love those pants

    international giveaway on my blog!

    http://hashtagliz.com

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  8. Fashion Snag 20. Jan, 2015 at 8:18 am #

    Love these carefree warm weather photos!

    http://www.FashionSnag.com

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  9. Natali 20. Jan, 2015 at 8:16 am #

    I LOVE how down to earth and “real” you are! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings on this blog because I love relatable people and blogs and this one/ you def. are that kind! Always a pleasure to come and read the latest post.

    http://lartoffashion.blogspot.com

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